About
Liz Chalmers
I grew up in England, where birth is seen as a normal part of life rather
than the medical event it is usually portrayed as in the United States.
Midwives attend most deliveries, and homebirth
is actively encouraged by the government.
I moved to the United States with my husband in 1989 to work in the
software industry, and was pregnant within 3 months. I have given birth four
times since then: twice at Group Health Eastside with the great midwives who
worked there, once with the fabulous midwives at the Puget Sound Birth
Center, and once in my tub at home, attended by Heike Doyle and Valerie
Sasson. Each experience was unique and each fundamentally changed me.
After several years, I realized I was getting little fulfillment from
working with computers, so I changed tack. In 2003, I apprenticed as a
midwife at Puget Sound Birth Center. I was privileged to attend 50
deliveries during that exhilarating and exhausting year. I came to realize
that when the team of midwives, childbirth educators, partners, and doulas
provides the empowerment and confidence ahead of time to offset the negative
messages around birth in our culture, most women can and do birth entirely
with their own strength and innate birth wisdom.
So why am I not a midwife? Because a midwife's lifestyle is very
difficult for her family. My husband and young children found it hard to
adjust to my being gone from the moment the pager beeped until the baby was
safely born, which was anywhere from 4 hours to 64 hours! So I have put my
love for midwifery on hold until my children are older. In the meantime,
teaching childbirth classes
gives me the opportunity to share my confidence and enthusiasm for birth
with expectant parents.
Although I am very done having babies myself, I envy you the experience of birth
that lies ahead.
Wendy Dean
As far back as I can remember, science, especially biology and physiology,
have fascinated me. When I was 12 years old I decided I would channel that
passion into becoming a veterinarian. With a single-minded focus, I pursued
that goal and after I completed vet school, I went on to complete an
internship and residency in small animal internal medicine. I really loved
my work and thought I would practice for my entire career. Then I had a baby
and my life changed.
Giving birth was by far the coolest thing I had
ever done. Even though the birth didn’t go as I had hoped and I required
medical interventions that I had not planned on needing, it was an amazing
experience. Then I had ANOTHER baby 2½ years later. Again, it did not go as
I had planned, but it was seriously the coolest thing I had ever done! My
husband was my sole support and the experience of birthing and parenting
together deepened our commitment to each other and at the same time stressed
our partnership in ways we could never have dreamed.
I went back to
work and was enjoying parenting my two lovely babies but I just couldn’t
shake the birth bug. I wanted to talk about it, read about it, heck if I
could have bathed in it I probably would have! Finally, I had to do
something about it. In the summer of 1999 I took a sabbatical from my
position as an associate veterinarian in a local practice and took the
childbirth educator training through CEAS (Childbirth Education Association
of Seattle….now Great Starts)and the Labor Support Training through Seattle
Midwifery School (now the Simkin Center for Allied Birth Professions at
Bastyr University). I accepted a position at Evergreen Hospital teaching
childbirth and early parenting classes and began attending births as a labor
support doula.
Now, 12 years later, I have taught hundreds of hours
of childbirth preparation classes and thousands of hours of early parenting
classes. I also facilitate a support group for families struggling with post
partum adjustment and mood disorder and teach the Bringing Baby Home
Workshop (based on the research of John and Julie Gottman about how to
smooth the couples’ transition to parenthood). In addition, I have had the
privilege to attend nearly 300 births in local hospitals, birth centers and
homes. This work is my heart. It is how I make a difference in the world,
one family and one life at a time. The only thing in my life that has
rivaled the satisfaction and joy I experience as a doula and an educator is
the satisfaction and joy I get from parenting my own fabulous kids. I can’t
imagine doing anything else.
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